Thank you for your comments Jackie. In regards to my swollen lymph node everything came out fine after my biopsy, no cancer, thank God! Regarding Bethenny Frankel, I believe she is a work in progress, like all of us in life. I admire her, but everyone is entitled to their opinion, so thanks again. 🙂

as for bethenny – being “successful” really depends on your definition of “success” if it’s money – then i suppose you could say – she is successful at creating an environment for herself to make money.

but for me — and many others that I choose to surround myself and my family with — “success” is defined by how we live our lives and treat other people.

I see bethenny as someone who is very unhappy, insecure and extremely mean and actually somewhat intolerant and evil toward others. i honestly have not heard a positive thing come from her about another person and she seems to take every opportunity she can to say something evil, nasty and downright mean about others.

I just don’t see that as being a successful human on the planet earth.

I feel sorry for her in that regard – but hope that one day (soon – as she seems to have a caring hubby and now a child and in-laws who care for the child, as well) — that she realizes it before her world collapses around her and all she is left with is her big, lonely pile of money.
(none of which will be from me, as i will not be buying any of her products. it’s kind of like choosing to live “green” or “natural” — i choose to live “happily” and support “positivity”) 🙂

you need to have redeeming qualities in order to be admired…and so far…..(and believe me — i have given her a try and ample oppty — even checked out her show)…she has not shown any. really – -any.
I find her humor really mean-spirited and off-putting and these are just not the types of people i choose to surround myself with.

i believe in living in LIGHT and with joy and positivity and at the end of the day — God woke me up in the morning and brought me through the day — and I live my life for Him.

As for the author here — I hope you are over your health issues – – but never ask “why, why me”….and if you want to know “why not?” — then read the book of Job….and not only read it — but find someone with perspective who can help you process and understand it.
It will give your life and trials, tribulations…and yes triumphs — a whole new outlook and meaning.

God Bless!!